I really really cannot stand hearing comments from people who 1), don't know the situation therefore 2), don't know a thing to be commenting in the first place thus 3), say stuff that is not constructive or whatsoever... They should just shut up and listen, think about it, in fact think for a day, then get back to me after they figure out what's really going on. THEN maybe I will sit down and listen and take the advice if it makes any sense at all... Otherwise I find it really hard to be nice and not talk back, especially when the person giving you the crapy advice is an adult that you are supposed to respect. Since I didn't say anything back to the person and still shouldn't say anything, I am going to say it here; when you don't know any better, please don't open your mouth! If I want some advice, I will ask. As simple as that. *my dad gives great advice... love it