sometimes boy (g) friends? Eh? Yes obviously I got this idea from your page, but... that's besides the point. So what's the difference between that and dating multiple people at once? Is it like in addition to dating, and being single, you also have boyfriends throughout the year at different times? And do you share your many relationship stories with your friends only but not with each individual "bf" and "dating potentials"? It makes sense, but it really doesn't. And does this mean these "bfs" gotta be from far away and can only fly in once in a while to visit you for lets say, at most a week? So the ideal "sometimes boy (g) friends" gotta be someone that you have long distance relationships with-- it's like talking to many guys (g) at once and only seeing some of them sometimes. SOMETIMES. hmmm... not a bad idea....??!! Ah, I think I have found the perfect remedy for people who are afraid of serious commitment! For those who are too selfish to be single and truly commit to ONE special person but not too selfish to share their men, since these sometimes boy (g) friends probably have many other sometimes boy (g) friends... So in order to be involved in this kind of relationship pattern a person would have to be successful, busy most of the time, has high tolerence and low tendency to get jealous, good time management skills and really good memories * don't wanna say the wrong name at wrong times*, open minded but won't easily give his/her heart away, someone who focuses on just having a good time and not think too much into any situation, someone who can enjoy the moment and go with the flow... he/she also has to be assertive and fun himself/herself... creative, talented enough to attract more than one girl/guy. The most important part is he/she must be charming enough, and honest at the same time in order to attract others into playing this kind of role in his/her life. Or maybe I should say he/she must be only good enough for people to want to have this kind of relationship with, but not GREAT for people to truly want to develop anything serious and long term with. Hmmm, maybe I am over-analyzing...
It's raining again. And now it's not... oh I guess I chated with her for too long...